Friday, July 20, 2007

My Private journal.

  I was just checking to make sure all who wanted in my private journal can get access.  If you can't get in let me know and I try adding you again.

 http://journals.aol.com/megamom134/rants-and-raves/


   Work tonight,  what fun.  I had a pretty good night last night but didn't get much sleep today.  The hospice nurse called to update me.  They realized my BIL wasn't keeping up informed of what they were finding so are calling us.  We have been going over daily now, well not me on the nights I work.  She said my MIL was asking how much longer she has today.  The nurse told her she felt she would be having Thanksgiving dinner with her husband meaning in heaven.  They are going to let us know when we should move in.  I think my MIL won't ask and she won't want BIL to think she doesn't think he is doing a good job, and he won't ask because then he won't be able to do some of things he has been doing without of knowing plus he has to be in control.  He got mad at her for talking to the dietitian.  He wanted to be the one to talk to her.  Yesterday when we were there I noticed all her banks are emptied.  Hummmmm.

    He also said he was going to have my MIL's company that are coming in a couple of weeks clean her house.  I told him I would email them and tell them not to come if he does something like that.  Clean your own mess BIL.  Her carpet looks terrible.  Cigarette burns, coffee spells, It is going to be really hard to sell the house if he keeps trashing it.  ARRRGGGGHHHHH.

10 comments:

coelha said...

He is going to ask "company" to come and clean the house?!?  Your poor MIL..  I think she would be better off without him there at all... Hang in there..  Julie

candlejmr said...

I can't access your private journal (sniff, sniff)

((hugs)) for you...and your MIL....
Jeanne

cacklinrosie101 said...

Shame on your BIL.  He could at least attempt to behave himself at this point in time but I suppose this dog is not going to learn any new tricks.  BTW:  Can I get access to your private journal?  Chris

jckfrstross said...

can i get into your private journal? your BIL is a piece of work.

Deb

erarein63 said...

I'm so sorry that your BIL is such a piece of work.  I'm sure that is just compounding the grief your husband feels towards the fact his mother is dying.  I have to work tonight as well.  Hope we both have a good night.  De ;)

inquestoftruth said...

I can't believe BIL's colosial nerve to trash the house.   He just makes me mad for you!!  
~Meg

fisherkristina said...

Hi Julie, this has nothing to do with the entry at hand, but I was wondering if you had weightloss ideas for me.  I am really struggling.

Krissy
http://journals.aol.com/fisherkristina/SometimesIThink

fisherkristina said...

Oh, you can say no if you want to, but can i be a reader of your private journal?

Krissy :)
http://journals.aol.com/fisherkristina/SometimesIThink

rdautumnsage said...

I can honestly without a wasted second of thought about it say-I hate your BIL, I truly despise the man. He is everything unkind and ugly in this world. I really truly hate what he is doing to your MIL and your family. The man is a leech that needs to be viscerated and done with. (Hugs) Indigo

gagirlatheart123 said...

Can you add me so I can access your private journal?  

gagirlatheart123